What the hell will this article be dealing with?
hehe <== psychedelic laughing
If you knew me, and actually most of you don't.. you would be on my facebook and you would have been wondering about what i was "gonna do" today !!
I mean, not all of you would be able to guess it as a daily contact with me is quite necessary in order to guess it, however Davinette, l'a deviné lui !!
YEAH yeah yeah .. i'm quite all over the internet and that's a geeky part of my personality ;) i always liked to meet new people from all over the world ! having like philosophical convos with mongolians, sociological interests on the americans ...
Internet is, like probably for most of you too, a joy , a pleasure , something that one couldnt be living without.
Frankly, my life is all depending on it. I do pay my bills, speak to my family, to my friends, read news, watch tv, find my recipes ...
But there is something I rarely do.. meeting people online.
I do speak with quite a few folks and some of them I will meet them , it's a matter of time and context... however this isnt the case for all the rest..
Plenty of guys i am speaking with , will never see my face. Or so to speak in" real life" as I usually show my pictures online.
Do you see the link between my title the main picture and what I am saying?? obviously not .. geez my readers are losers ..
yeah "we got the readers we deserve" and FU very much for that splendid and Oh so useful observation !!
You know what one of my favorite movie is?? ( yeah my sis wld tell you " erin brockovich and she would be right) so okie my second favorite movie? ex aequo with like a dozen others.. "you've got mail"!!
So, do you see the link with the first picture? still not .. Gosh dear reader.. YOU OBViously do not even do the minimum of your job.. read my mind !
I do believe in destiny !! and this is the link !
I tend to think that in real life, as online, there are people that whatever you would do, you will keep finding them on your path.
It happened and will keep happening. AND to be honest it did happen to me lately.
But so to come back to my first point, sometimes you MUST meet some people. Because they have that lil something that you might be interested in, because they're special for you .. and for a lot of other reasons.
Or simply because you feel something could happen and you have to check it.
I always hate to meet people because first : you can be disappointed.
2nd : they can be disappointed on you
3rd : to me, you need to know the person a lil bit in order to know already if u share common values and interests and some people just won't let you the time for it.
And then, you have to face them, sometimes it just goes wrong , the guy can just leave after 5 mns( it happened), will nt show up ( it happened) will behave like a snob asshole ( it happened), but sometimes you can have amazing meetings..
Leading to amazing friendships, leading to great relationships too.
I am looking for one of those, for the one that would make my heart melt. Of course, it is tricky, first you will have to make me interested online, show me that you really wanna commit and that can last months ( !!) NB avoid speaking about all the guys you keep meeting .. THIS ISNT THE KEY !!!
And once you convinced me and you still wanna meet and we have built something online then I would meet you and probably enjoy it !
But sometimes ... like RARELY..
I don't follow my plans .. a personality.. a way of explaining things.. a way of dealing with me.. and THE most important, a way of finding exactly what to say to make my skepticism go away.And then , I have to meet, i have to force myself because someone able to convince me online DESERVES this right.
After all .. a real meeting is the least we can do nah?