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the beginning of surrogate mothers in France??

A group of the Senat started to notice that the case of "surrogate mothers" was problematic..
I do think it's a real good thing that nowadays in France, couples who arent able to have their own children could have the possibility to get one.. according to the bioethical laws of 1994 and 2004, laws that will be reviewed next year, this is forbidden.. Of course rich families go abroad, in the US mostly to find women able to help them. Several things are problematic with the surrogate mother..
First, the use of the woman body, without rules it could lead to a kind of capitalization of the human body which is unthinkable.. basically i think women have the right anyway to do whatever they want..or almost..
so a legalization of the surrogate mothers would have to have specific rules and of course be divided of the bioethical laws..
the child is always the center of attention in the case law process, and this is a real good thing( who could deny it). Anyway, they do now speak about the possibility to have surrogate moms in France, Great thing i would say !
Yet, there is again a little problem.. and i may be personally concerned.
Let's consider that 10 per cent of the french population is homosexual. it would be around 6,5 millions of homos.. so almost the same amount of population than the province of Quebec, more than the population of Norway .. and this is just examples...
France isnt Sweden, the other day i critized Sweden, and i proved what i advanced with arguments :) yet, i alco can critize France.
France is my Homeland and i am proud of it ( OF COURSEEE) however i know when my country is wrong..
the gays are really accepted in France, i dont know any of my friends who had rl problems with his family or even in the public place :) i myself kissed guys in paris, lyon,  nd even aix without even getting a bad regard :) people are for most of them really gay friendly in France.
Yet, the goverment is not AT all :) Well gays cant marry in France :) oh of course we do have a kind of under civil union contract.. available for straight people anyway..
Gays in France cant adopt , but a single person can adopt !!! yes a lot of people, politicsm say that having both parents of the same sexe will cause psycho issues to the child ..
that is the nation of Equality between Citizens ..
the homos are not considered as citizens, its just a shame, im not asking for a gay religious mariage, the pope would die of an heart attack if we did ask for such a thing.. but a civil right should be a possibiliy whatever is written in the constitution.
If we come back to surrogate mothers, the idea of the french senat is to allow it for "straight" people. i am not speaking about lesbians because lesbians can get children much more easily than gays even tho afterward they will have problem for the legal adoption of the second mom. Gays for most of them cant get children in that easy ways..and thats for biological reasons. 
i like to think about adoption but this is not really what i want, i would love a child with my genes, my blood a part of me in another person. I think its understandable.
 I am not at all surprised that in France that kinda retrogressie country this would not be allowed for gays.. we are  a danger for children no?? we are allll pedophiles... BULLSHIT !
Dont u think we know more about the desire to love a child than anyone? dont u think we dont know that for us there is only a slight chance to get one someday?? dont u think we are sad about it?
not all gays want children, we are like straights! however the straight for most of them always have the possibility to change their mind.. and this we do not have it.
I want to have children when i will be able to raise it or them and thats not that fucked conservative french political people who will stop me to get one.
I just ask to be treated like anyone else citizen, is it hard to believe? is it hard to accept this?
I WOULD Like to be able to adopt if i want to ( following the normal rules for adoption) I WOULD like to be able to marry like any other french citizen, i WOULD like to be able to help a generous woman to give me a baby.. in a legal way..
so of course if even only the straight people can have acces to surrogate moms i will be happy for them but i hope all that straight people would think about all the gays, we could be your son, your nephew, your grandchild, our cousin ..
 I am not asking for special rights, i am not saying im different ( i even hate the gay pride to tell u the truth lol) i m saying the contrary !! I am an human being, i have a heart, i have feelings, i just love a person of the same sexe, is it a fault??